Maranao mothers share childhood memories
Some are painful, others are happy.
Like most families, the Maranaos feel the same pains and joys when it comes to family matters.
“I was the only child. My father had a nice regular work. He used to give me many gifts. I had his undivided attention. But when he married again, I was angry. What was once a bagful of candies that I received became pieces of candies because he has to give some to my other siblings,” a mother recalled.
A teacher remembered how she was bullied and teased in school because she is not pure Maranao. Her father is Maranao but her mother is not. “Back then, if you were half-bred, people look down on you.”
The participants opened up their deep-seated emotions during World Vision’s seminars on Celebrating Families intended for parents under World Vision’s Spiritual Nurture for Filipino Children (SNFC) project.
Celebrating Families aims to strengthen family relationship by deepening the parents or the children’s understanding of the personality of each member of the family.
“Many of them still need people whom they can tell their pains and sorrows. The pains may come from the siege that happened or from childhood experiences,” Romina Enopia, SNFC project coordinator in Mindanao, said. “Celebrating Families serves as venue where they can share those emotions, their thoughts and have somebody to listen to them.”
On the last day, participants expressed gratitude to World Vision for listening to their stories. “The most important lesson I learned from this seminar is the importance of love in the family and how to make it stronger. How to forgive and how give thanks,” Nihaya Solaiman said.
Another participant, Rayana Madum, said, “I realized that corporal punishment is not right.”
The Maranao, or the people of the lake, resides around Lake Lanao in Lanao del Sur, Mindanao. They are known for their rich culture and entrepreneurial skill. Prior to the influence of Islam, the Maranao were ruled by tribal leaders called datu.
Marawi City, the capital of Lanao del Sur, had a five-month-long armed conflict in 2017 known as the Marawi Crisis. The crisis brought by the armed confrontation between the Philippine government and militants displaced 98 percent of the total population of the city and nearby municipalities, the United Nations High Commissioner for Refugees (UNHCR) reported.